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Have you and your partner resorted to fighting? If the answer is "yes", then it’s time to seek help. Therapists help couples address unhealthy arguments and fights in their relationships, fostering a greater sense of calmness and unity.

Wherever you are located in California from Alameda to Yucaipa or even Montclair, or anywhere else nearby, Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Stop the Fighting with Professional Guidance

It’s normal for couples to fight from time to time, but fighting is abnormal and destructive if:

  • It happens constantly.
  • It involves insults and disrespect.
  • The underlying issues are rarely resolved.
  • Things get physical.

If any of these things apply to you, there’s some room for improvement. With professional guidance from a licensed therapist, you and your partner can move past the destructive fighting and get to a much better place.

Find out more about fighting in relationships in this article.

Don’t Wait: Talk with a Therapist Today!

Finding the right therapist for you and your partner can be a monumental challenge -- that is, if you don’t use Mental Health Match. Within a few minutes, we can connect you to the most qualified relationship therapists in your area. Use our 5-step matching tool to get matched today!

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Maddie Miyoshi
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You are enough. There are no bounds to what we can work on together. I encourage transparency and vulnerability so we can forge new patterns of trust and relating to others.


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You are enough. There are no bounds to what we can work on together. I encourage transparency and vulnerability so we can forge new patterns of trust and relating to others.

Something to know about my approach is:

I believe the root of most issues lies in our attachment with early caregivers to form our core beliefs. We will unearth patterns and work toward reframing and revising what affects how we show up in our present relationships and lives.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Complex Trauma
  • Confidence
  • Cultural Identity
  • Depression
  • Developmental Trauma
  • Families
  • Intergenerational Trauma
  • Interpersonal Difficulties
  • Life Transitions
  • Racial or Ethnic Identity
  • Relationship Distress
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-Esteem
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Amy Anderson
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Conquer the world! If it was only so easy. Really, we can formulate the plan for your inner self to conquer any obstacle you may be enduring.


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Conquer the world! If it was only so easy. Really, we can formulate the plan for your inner self to conquer any obstacle you may be enduring.

Something to know about my approach is:

I'm strength based, compassionate, non-judgmental, honest, and direct. I have extensive experience working within difficult systems- Inpatient hospital, substance use clinics, government, residential, and outpatient correctional therapeutic centers.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Attachment Disorders
  • Men
  • Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
  • Obsessive-Compulsive Spectrum Disorders (OCSDs)
  • Perfectionism
  • Relationships
  • Relationship Skills
  • Trauma
  • Women
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Kerstin Hern
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Explore the stories connected to emotions to gain the "aha" insights that empower you to change undesirable thoughts and behaviors. Insights unlock personal power; learning coping skills/tools (mindfulness, CBT, somatics, breathwork) maintain peace.


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Together, we will:

Explore the stories connected to emotions to gain the "aha" insights that empower you to change undesirable thoughts and behaviors. Insights unlock personal power; learning coping skills/tools (mindfulness, CBT, somatics, breathwork) maintain peace.

Something to know about my approach is:

I use evidence-based tools, skills, neuroscience education + somatic work, mindfulness, intuition, creativity blended w/ each client's unique strengths + gifts. This creates a space to be vulnerable, explore, uncover insights, and achieve your goals.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • ADHD in Womxn or Femme Populations
  • Adult ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)
  • Complex Trauma
  • Confidence
  • Coping Skills
  • Couples
  • Depression
  • Distress Tolerance
  • Finding Meaning or Purpose
  • Friendships
  • Grief
  • Highly Sensitive People (HSPs)
  • Holistic Wellness
  • Inner Child
  • Intergenerational Trauma
  • Life Transitions
  • Meditation
  • Mindfulness
  • Mood Regulation
  • Negative Self-Talk
  • Neurodivergence
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationship Skills
  • Reparenting Yourself
  • Self-Actualization
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Regulation
  • Self-Worth
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Sex Workers
  • Spirituality
  • Spiritual Trauma
  • Stress
  • Teen Anxiety
  • Trauma
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Michael Keesey
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We will identify what is Making you feel stuck, Why is that happening, looking at your past and then using CBT based modalities to institute new behaviors.


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We will identify what is Making you feel stuck, Why is that happening, looking at your past and then using CBT based modalities to institute new behaviors.

Something to know about my approach is:

I provide a safe and calm space for you to explore your past and how it relates to your current issues. We go at your speed and work collaboratively towards making change. I am with you every step of the way.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Career Counseling
  • College Students
  • Confidence
  • Major Depressive Disorder
  • Relationship Conflict
  • Relationship Distress
  • Relationships
  • Self-Esteem
  • Teenagers
  • Video Game Addiction
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Mark B Gallo, Jr
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I can relate to your feelings of confusion, anxiety, fear and weariness. You can expect from me a nonjudgmental relationship allowing for a catalyst towards awareness and self-discovery where “unlearning” and healing can occur.


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I can relate to your feelings of confusion, anxiety, fear and weariness. You can expect from me a nonjudgmental relationship allowing for a catalyst towards awareness and self-discovery where “unlearning” and healing can occur.

Something to know about my approach is:

I’m psychodynamically inclined with cognitive-behavioral applications. I believe You are the expert and support your journey to unravel unconscious beliefs and adaptive behaviors that create conflicting forces between security and growth.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Codependency
  • Couples
  • Depression
  • LGBTQ+
  • Relationship Distress
  • Trauma
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